Time and wounds.

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Several years ago,my friend's  dad passed on.Her  mum,her  sisters   were beside themselves  wondering how all of a sudden,they  were without a father,even though they  had reached a point in their  lives,they  asked the question most people ask;why?.Friends who came around consoled them with so many words,especially her mum-with these words-time heals all wounds.
We all hear these words-especially when people are hurt.But does it really heal with time.
Time waits for no one.We all have the same time to do things ,its up to us to maximize it.Time does not heal,It only makes you realize the hole it has placed ,the mistakes you made,the opportunities you wasted.With issues like death ,failures and other issues-its impossible.
The only thing to do is to make the rest time left,count.There is no use beating oneself up or worse still blaming ithers for mistakes.Building better friendships,building oneself-in every way-physically,intellectually,emotionally,socially-lifts one up,to make up for lost or wasted time and ultimately helping others in doing same.

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